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Tuesday
Jul202010

Managing your Love Life from your Smartphone

We live in a mobile society and are attached at the hip (OK, hand) to our mobile devices.  We manage our professional lives from our phone, find movie times, get directions, read restaurant reviews and update our statuses.  But you can also manage your entire single life on the go.  In fact, if you haven’t been using it to manage your love life yet, you’re only making things harder for yourself.  Since you can easily get lost in the app store, below is your guide to managing your love life from the palm of your hand.

Start by downloading the mobile app for your dating site de jour.  While it may seem redundant to have your Okcupid, Match.com or eHarmony account on your phone – think again.  Just because you’re away from your computer, doesn’t mean that your match should have to wait days for you to return the message (likely loosing interest in the process).  Having the app on your phone allows you to respond to your matches in a timely manner while you’re on the go. 

Next, download a location-based dating app so you can flirt in real-time. Geo-location is hot, but it’s not just for your social life.  Applications like Urban Signals, MeetMoi and Skout will allow you to peruse the singles that are physically nearby, message them safely through the app and meet up if the digital feeling is right! 

Speaking of location-based apps, use Foursquare and Gowalla to create your Friday night flirt plan.  While you’re getting ready to head out for the night, put your pals phones together and see who has checked in where.  Which of your gal pal’s friends are cute?  What area can you hit up together where there are lots of cuties at the moment?

Using technology will allow you to painlessly plan dates.  Try Urban Daddy’s “The Next Move” app which will help you find the perfect spot based on where you are, time of day, who you’re with and what you want.   It’s particularly awesome to well, plan your next move.  If you don’t want the date to end but need a new location after dinner, head to the restroom, plug in your info and choose an Urban Daddy approved venue.  Also awesome is Siri Assistant which will find you what you’re looking for no matter how specific and make reservations.

Connecting and staying in touch is done on your phone too, right?  Make sure that you have the Facebook and Twitter apps downloaded, go ahead and text with your matches, but don’t forget to CALL.  Sometimes the simplest function is the most important.  The conversation will be more captivating.  The nerves in your voice will be endearing.  And the excitement you emit will be encouraging.  

Reader Comments (6)

You are absolutely right. In this modern day and age we should be using the technology available to us to make our lives better.

If that means using our mobile phones to surf the web and check our online dating accounts then so be it. I often login to check my mails and even search for new potential dates while Im on the move.

Good post, you highlighted a few apps that sound good but I haven't installed yet - going to check them out now :)

July 26, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterDating Reviews

It's amazing what one can do from these little phones. I'm a big fan of the online dating apps. Haven't gotten into 4Square yet but I plan to try it out soon. Good tips!

July 26, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJess of CityGirlsWorld

Having an app on your phone to connect to your dating profiles is a good time saving idea. The prospect of the message poster loosing interest is a big factor in the online dating scene.

There is much to be said about using Free Online Dating Sites also to find dating prospects.

July 28, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterFree Online Dating

Technology these days is unbelievable. There are so many ways to reach the internet. One day I might be able to read my online dating profile from my coffee maker :)

Indeed we rely so heavily on our mobile connection these days. In fact I have a friend who keep a phone especially for his dating escapades. He can switch it off if he's with his wife. lol
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August 2, 2010 | Unregistered Commenteronlinedatingguru

I just wanna thank you for sharing your information and your site or blog this is simple but nice article I have ever seen i like it i learn something today.

June 14, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterPredictive Dialer

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