How to Win a Guy in 10 Days

By Samantha Perry

You’ve probably heard of how to LOSE a guy in 10 days, but to win him over is another story. Getting a guy in 10 days sounds like something straight out of movie, but when it works, it's as glorious as it is on the big screen. Getting a guy in 10 days sounds like a lot of hard work, but with a little help of different date and activities suggestions you’ll land yourself the man of your dreams in no time.

Day 1: Video Game night 

Ease into the swing of dating with a casual night and impress your guy with your geeky knowledge of gaming. Plus it’s a cheap and easy alternative to win the heart of your man. What’s more there’s nothing like a bit of gaming competition on Mario Kart to heat things up.

Day 2: Bowling 

Kick it old school with a bowling date and get those competitive juices flowing with a casual game of bowling. The two of you can eat, drink and bowl the night away in a fun and relaxed atmosphere. Who knows you could strike it lucky with your guy?  

Day 3: Homemade cooking 

Nothing wins a way to a man’s heart quicker than food. Spice up your typical dinner date by cooking him a romantic homemade meal and let your expert culinary skills do the talking. 

Day 4: Watching football together

Huge potential girlfriend points to be had here, if you’re taking him to see any type of sport any woman who does this for a guy deserves a medal outright, unless you like sport yourself then go right ahead. Going to see his favourite football team let’s him cheer for his favourite players while you can share beer and burgers together. Cute.  

Day 5: Poker Playing

Put on your best poker face and join in with the lads’ poker night. Show your man that women can be just as good if not better at poker and Full Tilt Poker shows that more and more women are getting their poker game faces on. So wow your guy with a full house.  

Day 6: Stand-up comedy

The tried-and-tested ultimate key to your man’s heart is humour. A stand-up comedy date is a great way to break the ice and to laugh together. However, be sure to sit at the back unless you want to be ripped apart. 

Day 7: Pub

What better way to win a guy over than suggesting going down your local pub? Chatting over drinks will ensure the mood is relaxed and by keeping it casual will dispel any first-date jitters.  

Day 8: Cinema date

No date is complete without a stereotypical cinema date with your beau. To earn extra man brownie points be sure to let him choose the film. A little warning though expects something kind of sci-fi with a little bit of action packed with guns or something horror laced with tonnes of gore and blood. Don’t worry if it all gets too much for you, it’s the perfect excuse to cuddle up to him. 

Day 9: Outdoor walk 

Learn to love the great outdoors and go on an exploring adventure by getting some physical activity. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea but who could say no to a casual summer stroll hand-in-hand through some picturesque fields?  

Day 10: Live music 

Take your man to see his favourite band or artist play live, gigs are a fantastic easy-going date idea because you’ll have plenty of time to grab a drink in-between and you won’t have to fill hours with incessant nattering.  


Samantha Perry is passionate about helping people with their relationships. Whether you are still in the dating phase or in a serious relationship, her advice will make your partner fall for you.